Ok girl, so if you are here it’s either because I appeared in some kind of social media platform and I seduced you to open this up oooooor, you searche for “HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE”. Am I right?
I used to do this all the time. Youtube, Pinterest, blogger… everywhere! How the hell do I change my life. I was miserable, feeling sorry for myself and I felt worthless. I scrolled endesly through social media, hoping I could have the perfect life that all the influencers shared. I was hoping for some kind of 3 step method to change your life entirely. I wanted to live a dream life.
I scrolled and searched and watched, yet nothing hit my soul. Nothing would give me the answers I was looking for. Why? Why couldn’t I start living the life of my dreams? Why did good things never happen to me? Why did everyone else have to be so perfect?
It wasn’t until I started making these changes that I finally realized how I really could change my life around. How I could really start living the life of my dreams. A fabulous life of success and fulfillment. Now, I’m not going to come on here and lie to you and say that all of a sudden I started making millions of dollars and lost 50 lbs and now my life is perfect. Hell No! The 50 lbs are still lingering and I am still on the process of building my business, but am I living a totally different life that I love and enjoy and makes me feel fucking fabulous? Hell yes! Want to know my secrets? Want to know how I went from living miserably to actually taking my life back and turning it around? Then keep on reading! These key points are short, but if you implement them into your life… I can guarantee, you will change your life.
- First of all, if you want to live the life of your dreams, you have to make sure they are your dreams and your dreams only. Not social media inspired. Not youtuber life. Not something you saw on a netflix movie. Think of when you were a child. What would you dream of? How did you imagine your life to be? We get so intoxicated with social media and its influence on the world. We end up thinking that influencers have the perfect life and that we should copy them. However, we end up feeling discouraged, thinking “nothing really works out for me. I am a failure! Why do I even try?” You wanna know why it will never work for you? Because it is not you. It is not your dream! It is not aligned with what you were meant to be. It is not the life that matches your DNA! So stop comparing yourself to influencers because guess what? Their life isn’t perfect either. Is it amazing? Yeah, maybe…. but you are only seeing 20% of their real life. You would see that it isn’t perfect and that if they are living a happy and amazing life, is purely because they decided to stay pure to their own dreams and goals.
- The life of your dreams is not perfect. So this might go hand in hand with what I said in number one. Just like influencers don’t have a perfect life, you won’t either. Life will never be perfect. We will always have struggles, we will always face doubts and fears. Living the life of your dreams will come when you learn how to face them. When you learn to keep going throught the obstacles and the struggles. No body has it easy. Do some people struggle to get to the top more than others? Yes, but that’s just because we all have different mindsets and different journeys to travel. At the end of the day, we all have to go through a journey in order to get to the top. Enjoy the struggles. They make you wiser and stronger.
- Start implementing new healthy habits and letting go of the bad ones. It is as easy as that. You can’t expect your life to change if you keep having the same bad habits. You can’t expect to lose weight if you don’t eat healthy and exercise. This is the easiest step in your path to changing your life. Sticking to new habits might be a little harder but you just gotta see what works for you. Go online, go see what habits successful people are doing and implement them into your life. You don’t have to wake up at 5 am if that doesn’t work for you, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have a great morning routine. Even if your morning routine is at 10 am. You don’t have to go vegan if that doesn’t tickle your pickle. It’s all about knowing your body, knowing your mind and soul. Applying what feels right and what feels aligned.
- The most important part of this is to understand that even tho you might feel happier, more relaxed, fulfilled or just plain different, you will still be you. You dont have to and realisticly you will never be able to turn into someone else in order to live a different lifestyle. You, as you are now, are worthy of feeling happy. You are worthy of having a fabulous life. You are worthy of having the amazing life you have always wanted. You don’t have to change you. It is one thing to change certain habits, but at the end of the day your intrinsic value has always been there and will always stay within you. Never, EVER feel like you aren’t worthy of change. Like you aren’t worthy of all the good and wonderful things life has to offer. There is enough for everyone to have abundance of love, money and happiness. Keep searching. Keep digging. Keep creating habits. Keep working on yourself. You might find a better version of yourself… but at the end of the day it will still be the amazing, beautiful you that you are!
If you are looking to start changing your life. If you are ready to take that step into happiness and living the life you deserve to live, stay tuned for my Group Coaching Program launching in June. You deserve so much love, hope, clarity and fabulousness. I guess that’s not a real word but I just made it one! I love you and remember that there is no road to happiness. Happiness is the way!